Values that should know at the age of 5

A lot of parents think to children before studying, they are still relatively inmature, it is still much too early to teach their values. In fact, this is a kind of misunderstanding, the following is the values that should be developed when the child is 5 years old.
Honest - -Accompany children to move towards it to genuiness
Value quotation: 1,Want the child to be honest, the best method is that the parents tell the truth, set an example. 2,Even one to seem deception without injury is disadvantageous that children's development is either.
Spoil mother want, restrain to spoil, spoil with number of times of playing of little Lin, friend of he, 3 year old from. These two little children have gathered together recently and always liked fighting. So when Xiao Lin's mother demanded to arrange for two children to play together, it is delicate and ill to spoil mother and pretend to be. After the words are had no intention of hearing delicately, she behaves very afraidly, ask mother crying: "Mum, mum, why I? What disease have I caught? Is it important? " Understand small and delicate: Why not fall ill obviously oneself, does but mother say oneself is ill? Will the heart not injuring the auntie lie soon?
Should let your child know your honesty to others. Mother spoilt should say to Xiao Lin's mother, they are unsuitable to play together today, because I notice they fought too much last week. The result of doing it in this way is better than child's ill result of telling Xiao Lin's mother.
Just - -Lead justice of the child
Value quotation: 1,In order to melt in the just meaning while helping children, parents need to encourage them to compensate their mistake. 2,Encourage children to do some equal games which treat others.
At the latest family party, the beans and beans 4 years old and his cousin are putting up the castle, unexpected beans and beans have pushed over the castle, the little cousin has cried. Seeing this scene, father of beans and beans has been reprimanded beans and beans and required him to apologize to cousin, the beans and beans are sincerely said: "I am wrong. " Then father asks the beans and beans: "Why push over the cousin's castle? " The beans and beans tell father: "The cousin's castle is bigger than mine, I am a little sad. " Then my father tells the beans and beans: "We should fair a bit, can't because loud to right away go to overthrow it than you in castle of younger brother, we can try to pile one's own castle more largely too. "
The response of the beans and beans father is like a lot of clever parents' method. It is right like this, but still insufficient. In order to melt in the just meaning while helping children, parents need to encourage them. For example, father of the beans and beans should encourage the beans and beans to help the cousin to put up the castle again.
Determined - -Give children a courage
Value quotation: 1,Encourage child oppose they come, speak difficult thing and initiative in they praise. 2,When the child has done very difficult thing, should congratulate children.
The raising of 5 years old was raised for mother to show the picture that he just created with the new wax crayon, mother praised him. Then he has finished another one bringing mother and wanting and is praised getting back to one's own room hastily, then one is brought over connecting one. One is worse than one, mother does not know what is said. Mother should say so at this moment: "Raise, the picture serious as previous one, can you do the best to finish a little? " Avoid too much praise children at this moment, and should transmit in a positive, gentle way.
Another method help child develop resolution to encourage them oppose they come on, say difficult thing. For example, if your daughter is very apt to get angry, hand over to several kinds of tactics of hers to control getting angry; When the child has made into very difficult thing for adults, should congratulate children.
Show understanding - -Get child nearer the friendship
Value quotation: 1,The experience of the small problem can help children to study the value of showing understanding. 2,When the child has done very difficult thing, should congratulate children.
Letting mother feel recently, an angry one has been taking twin girls to the supermarket each time, all end up with the crying and shouting making a fun of two daughters. As mother takes two daughters to the supermarket to do shopping, the elder sister says that will eat chocolates, the younger sister likes the cookies. Two people quarrel in this way. Watching to two children endlessly of quarrel, mother says to them patiently: "Children, everybody has things that oneself likes because does not like not making others better by oneself non- all right, to incorrect, the elder sister likes chocolates, then we buy chocolates, the younger sister likes the cookies, we buy the cookies too, is not this very good? "
As time goes on, can find language or action can make other man smile or happy even if it is very little children, when he is to a person's friendship, that person is very friendly too to him, the feedback can encourage others' true showing understanding and taking action.