It is self-confident to set up: How to make the timid child no longer timid

Q: Son of me study in kindergarten swing shift this year, have more introversive personalities, any activity join voluntarily, disclose performance celebrate a festival eye in kindergarten. I am very afraid the teacher does not like him, ignore him, makes him isolated in the kindergarten.
The reporter knows in interviewing, teachers do not ignore this kind of introversive child in the kindergarten, will pay close attention to them further instead, some teachers still find out the heart untying the introversive child by ingenious method forms, let them set up self-confidently, become optimistic.

" game room " Thing that China has a heart-to-heart talk
"The child displays timidly to think the environment strange or not he does not thinks the dependable person at one's side, the teacher wants to proceed with these two respects. "
The kindergarten has had in the corner on the playground the sand " The game room " ,When finding that there are children not to dare to associate with classmates in the class, the teacher will spend the time after school taking children to " the game room " Play games such as every family,etc., discuss the anecdote in the happy thing or family happening with the child on the same day in this course, let him regard teacher as the friend. After such three or four times, the teacher organizes several classmates to reach " the game room " together Play, let the timid child in " game room " Find person and environment that is familiar with. And then train his optimistic and initiative personality slowly.

Arrange with the optimistic child's deskmate
It is the timid child that creates the chance of the contacts as much as possible. The garden long to tell reporter whether introverted child in inconspicuous reason, he take the initiative, keep in touch with other people, we let export-oriented child with he deskmate, or carry on group's cooperative activity, let the optimistic child drive the introversive child.

Kiss and lead the child to incorporate it in children
Parents' guide to child is more important. In the action, such as at the time of the outdoor sports, parents require children to play with other children orally simply, the timid child may not obey, if parents draw the child's hands, go to children group together, teach children how to say: "Shall we play together? " Add into game too by oneself, so introversive a child will be infected too, put down the timid burden quickly, put into the game heartily, such several times, the child's courage will increase slowly, no longer introversive too.

Fully utilize Family Day
Child timid, except that personality make right, very much loud factor lie in not there is not peripheral living environmenting, so long as parents guide aptly, the home cooperates, help to train this part of infant's good personalities.

So long as introversive child play with the child of the same age more, the personality can become optimistic. " a lot of families like ' Family Day ' (i.e. family party day) now ,Family of similar child of some ages of our kindergarten, organized some collective activities on weekend, let the children bring along each other in the course of playing, parents all think one's own child can draw the companion's good habit, benefit a lot. "